My forum in which to share my rants, frustrations, and finds on my search for the story of who I am.
20 May 2013
In Memoriam
Walter LeRoy Grimes
19 June 1931-21 March 2012
This is one of my favorite photographs of my grandfather, Walter. The little girl he is holding is my mother. The photo was taken in October of 1953 which would have made my mother a little over a year old at the time. My grandfather was a police officer for many years and was the deputy sheriff of Harrisonville, MO when a shooting spree took place on the square there. He was a mild spoken man but boy could he talk. You could get him going on any number of subjects. It really didn't matter what it was. He just liked to talk.
Here's a link to a news article on the shootings on the Harrisonville, Mo square:
http://news.google.com/newspapers?nid=2199&dat=19720425&id=HiQyAAAAIBAJ&sjid=SOcFAAAAIBAJ&pg=5370,7933094
12 April 2013
In Memoriam......
In Loving Memory
Richard Lawrence Wimsatt
20 April 1928-12 April 2012
Richard Lawrence Wimsatt |
24 March 2013
Scrap Day Sunday
Today I'm sharing a picture that belongs to my great great uncle, Jesse Grimes. This photo was taken in front of the Gen. Rufus Putnam house located in Marietta, OH. The house is now housed in the Campus Martius Museum also located in Marieatta, OH. Standing outside of the house is Lucy Cox (VanZandt) Jones. She's the woman standing in front of the doorway on the right. Next to her is her granddaughter, Betty Jane Miller, an unknown woman in black and her daughter, Helen (Jones) Miller. Lucy (VanZandt) Jones was the sister of my 3rd great grandfather, William Eldon Van Sant. They were descendants of Gen. Rufus Putnam through their mother, Pheobe (Merriam) VanZandt. It's a pretty cool picture in and of itself. It's the reverse side of the picture that revealed a clue to some unknown information.
The sentence "the old block house where grandma Merriam was born", is the one that stuck out to me. This could only refer to the birthplace of Catherine Huldah (Tupper) Merriam who was indeed the grandmother to William and Lucy. Catherine (Tupper) Merriam was the daughter of Col. Benjamin and Martha "Patty" (Putnam) Tupper. Martha (Putnam) Tupper was the daughter of Gen. Rufus Putnam and Persis Rice. So, due to the inscription on the back of the photo, I have a pretty good idea where Catherine was born. Even better, I can still visit the house to this day!
18 March 2013
A Quest
In researching the role that my ancestor, Cyrus Merriam, played as a conductor on the Underground Railroad in Ohio, I came across an account given by Thomas Gray. The account was found in Wilbur Siebert papers that are held by the Ohio Historical Society. In the account, Thomas Gray gives the names of two slaves that he was helping find their way to freedom, Isaac and Anderson. He also mentions that Isaac and Anderson belonged to a Mary Ann McDonald of Virginia.
Now for my quest. I would like to see if I can possibly track Isaac or Anderson to see if they did find their way to freedom. There isn't much to go on. Just two names and the name of the owner. I just feel this need to know. If I can find the information that I seek, that will be fantastic. If not, I've gained some knowledge in how to track African-American lineages, something that I have no experience with. So I see it as a win-win situation either way!
17 March 2013
Scrap Day Sunday
The William Eldon VanSant Family ca. 1920. |
Today's offering is a photograph of the the William and Julia (Baldwin) VanSant family. This photograph would have been taken sometime around 1920. I'm basing this on the fact that my great grandfather Merlin, who was born in 1909, seems to be about 8 or 9 years old in the photo. The photo was most likely taken on Williams farm near Spruce, Bates, MO. Below is a key which identifies everyone.
10 March 2013
Scrap Day Sunday
Funeral Card for Joshua Lawrence Dickerson |
The Joshua and Cynthia (Collins) Dickerson Family. Standing left to right; Alice Arabella, Lawrence Leander, Charles Richard and Mary Ellen. Seated left to right: Margaret Leolla, Joshua Lawrence, Catherine Cynthia Ann and Rosa Dickerson. |
Joshua passed away on 2 Feb 1912 in Charlotte Township, Bates County, MO. He is buried in Virginia Cemetery in rural Bates County, MO.
The Dickerson headstone located at Virginia Cemetery. |
08 March 2013
Funeral Card Friday
This is actually the funeral home card for 4th great-grandfather Nicholas Adams. It actually contains a lot of information. Besides when and where he was born, it also lists the exact time of death. The funeral was held on 26 January 1904 at 3PM at his residence in Charlotte Township, MO.
Nicholas Adams |
03 March 2013
Scrap Day Sunday: Grandma Rosie's Stories
Anna Rose (Lincet) Ayres with daughter Pearl. |
Anna Rose (Lincet) Ayres, my great-great grandmother, is by far one of the most fascinating ancestors that I have. At least to me she is. I never knew Anna or Grandma Rosie as everyone called her. She died several years before I was born. Even after researching her line, I'm no closer to knowing much about her. What I know I have gleaned from older relatives and a few scant records that I have come across. So her aura of mystery remains for me.
Anna was born in the year 1879 in Clear Lake, Cerro Gordo, Iowa to Christ and Lena Lincet. Her parents were of Norwegian descent. Anna married Robert Buenos Ayres on 23 September 1899 in Jackson County, MO. On her marriage certificate to Buenos her maiden name is listed as Lane not Lincet(a source of many a headache). Anna and Buenos had 6 children before Buenos died in 1916. This left Anna to raise 6 children on her own and times were not always easy.
Grandma Rosie was a bit of a bohemian type. She liked to paint and would paint on whatever she could find to paint on. She would also tell your fortune by reading cards or reading the tea leaves. She also liked to write stories. I recently came across some of these stories in my grandmother's things. They are short stories and seemed to be geared toward children. Many of them are not complete. So here is the first page from "For I Need You" by Anna Rose Ayres. I think she would be thrilled to know that her stories were floating around in cyberspace!
"For I Need You" by Anna Rose Ayres, page 1. |
01 March 2013
Funeral Card Friday
Today's funeral card is that of my great grandmother Ruby Collins (Dickerson) Grimes. She was the daughter of Lawrence Leander and Lillie May (Vermillion) Dickerson. She so detested her middle name that she used the letter "D" instead of Collins. Collins was her paternal grandmother's last name. Why she hated it, I don't know.
Ruby Collins (Dickerson) Grimes as a young girl. |
28 February 2013
Rant of the Day
One of my biggest pet peeves has to be the all-knowing genealogist. We've all experienced them at one point or another. The ones that offer "constructive criticism" tinged with an air of superiority. Your research and analysis is wrong but theirs is infallible. THOSE genealogists.
Now, I am all for constructive criticism. Heck, I'm happy if you can prove my research is flawed. I would much rather have an accurate understanding of my family history than to have it full of mistakes and flaws. That being said, there are those who get down right nasty when you present a counter-argument to their "infallible" research. They are more than happy to prove you wrong, but will not see the flaws in their own research. Quite frankly, I have no use for you. Don't even bother contacting me. You will be ignored.
For the most part, I have had nothing but wonderful experiences with the genealogical community. It is a diverse community that ranges from the beginner to the long-time professionals. It is a community of sharing and generosity. It is filled with wonderful people who share the need to know their heritage. So, to all my genealogical friends out there, thank you, for all your help and encouragement. It is noted and appreciated. Whew! I feel better!
Now, I am all for constructive criticism. Heck, I'm happy if you can prove my research is flawed. I would much rather have an accurate understanding of my family history than to have it full of mistakes and flaws. That being said, there are those who get down right nasty when you present a counter-argument to their "infallible" research. They are more than happy to prove you wrong, but will not see the flaws in their own research. Quite frankly, I have no use for you. Don't even bother contacting me. You will be ignored.
For the most part, I have had nothing but wonderful experiences with the genealogical community. It is a diverse community that ranges from the beginner to the long-time professionals. It is a community of sharing and generosity. It is filled with wonderful people who share the need to know their heritage. So, to all my genealogical friends out there, thank you, for all your help and encouragement. It is noted and appreciated. Whew! I feel better!
24 February 2013
Scrap Day Sunday
Today's "scrap" is a permission note written by Ezra Liston to the county clerk of Cass County, Missouri in which he certifies that his daughter is over the age of eighteen and that he consents to her marriage to W. H. Foust. The note reads;
June 30th 1886
To the county clerk of Cass Co. Mo. this is to certify that my daughter Ella F. Liston is past the age of eighteen years and that I give my consent to her marriage to W. H. Foust.
Please issue marriage license to them, and oblige.
Ezra Liston
William Henry Foust married Ella Francina Liston on that very day 30 June 1886 in Harrisonville, Cass, MO. They went on to have eight children including my great grandmother, Amelia Mae (Foust) Wimsatt.
18 February 2013
Random Picture Day
17 February 2013
Scrap Day Sunday
Paul V Dickerson |
Ruby Dickerson date unknown |
14 February 2013
A Hidden Cache
The Grimes Family: Evelyn, Robert, Walter and Janet. |
13 February 2013
The Rebel and the Love Poem
My ancestor, Capt. George Denison, wrote this poem to his first wife, Bridget. Bridget was the daughter of John and Alice (Freeman) Thompson. My descent in through his second wife, Anne Borodell, daughter of John Borodell. I'm also a descendant of John and Alice Thompson through Bridget's sister, Dorothy (Thompson), Parke. Happy Valentine's Day!
"It is an ordinance, my dear divine
Which God unto the sons of men makes shine.
Even marriage is that whereof I speak
And unto you my mind therein I beak.
In Paradise, of Adam, God did tell
To be alone, for man, would not be well.
He in His wisdom thought it right
To bring a woman into Adam's sight.
A helper that for him might be most meet
And comfort him by her doing discreet.
I of that stock am sprung, I mean from him
And also of that tree I am a limb
A branch though young, yet do I think it good
That God's great vows by man be not withstood.
Alone I am, a helper I would find
Which might give satisfaction to my mind.
The party that doth satisfy the same
Is Mistress Bridget Thompson by her name.
God having drawn my affections unto thee
My Heart's desire is thine may be to me.
Thus with my blottings though I trouble you
Yet pass these by cause I know not how
Though they at this time should much better be
For love it is the first have been to thee
And I wish that they much better were.
Therefore I pray accept them as they are
So hoping my desire I shall obtain.
Your own true lover, I, George Denison by name.
From my father's house in Roxbury
To Miss Bridget Thompson, 1640."
DENISON NEWSLETTER (July 1985), No.77, p.4
"It is an ordinance, my dear divine
Which God unto the sons of men makes shine.
Even marriage is that whereof I speak
And unto you my mind therein I beak.
In Paradise, of Adam, God did tell
To be alone, for man, would not be well.
He in His wisdom thought it right
To bring a woman into Adam's sight.
A helper that for him might be most meet
And comfort him by her doing discreet.
I of that stock am sprung, I mean from him
And also of that tree I am a limb
A branch though young, yet do I think it good
That God's great vows by man be not withstood.
Alone I am, a helper I would find
Which might give satisfaction to my mind.
The party that doth satisfy the same
Is Mistress Bridget Thompson by her name.
God having drawn my affections unto thee
My Heart's desire is thine may be to me.
Thus with my blottings though I trouble you
Yet pass these by cause I know not how
Though they at this time should much better be
For love it is the first have been to thee
And I wish that they much better were.
Therefore I pray accept them as they are
So hoping my desire I shall obtain.
Your own true lover, I, George Denison by name.
From my father's house in Roxbury
To Miss Bridget Thompson, 1640."
DENISON NEWSLETTER (July 1985), No.77, p.4
10 February 2013
Scrap Day Sunday
Family Record found in the front cover of the Ingraham/Wardwell bible. Courtesy of the Bates County Museum. |
03 February 2013
Scrap Day Sunday
Today I'm going to share the funeral bill for my 3rd great grandfather Sameul Braucht. Samuel died 7 October 1912. The casket, embalming, flowers and hearse all came to a total of $108.
27 January 2013
Scrap Day Sunday
The $148 Appendectomy |
Merlin and Ruby (Dickerson) Grimes |
25 January 2013
A Wonderful Surprise
Among some old books I found a miniature Bible printed in1834. In it it
faintly has Thomas's name....it is a very old book...and a small obit
for little Thomas. Says he was at his grandfather's, Cyprus Meriam, in
Springfield township, and that his parents, Wm. And Phebe, were away
when he died.
Thought there could be a connection.
I received this email from a woman named Lisa today. I didn't recognize the sender, but I opened it anyway. Boy am I glad I did! She tracked me down through a Find A Grave memorial I created for my 3rd great grandfather William Eldon VanSant. Thomas C. VanSant was William's older brother who died at about the age of 5. He was staying at the home of his grandfather, Cyrus Merriam (Good Old Cyrus again) when he passed away. It seems his parents William Denison and Phebe (Merriam) VanZandt were away when he passed. Now it's time to research exactly what happened to Thomas. It pays to contribute to the genealogical community!
Thought there could be a connection.
The bible that belonged to Thomas C. Vansant. Thomas died when he was 5 years old. |
I received this email from a woman named Lisa today. I didn't recognize the sender, but I opened it anyway. Boy am I glad I did! She tracked me down through a Find A Grave memorial I created for my 3rd great grandfather William Eldon VanSant. Thomas C. VanSant was William's older brother who died at about the age of 5. He was staying at the home of his grandfather, Cyrus Merriam (Good Old Cyrus again) when he passed away. It seems his parents William Denison and Phebe (Merriam) VanZandt were away when he passed. Now it's time to research exactly what happened to Thomas. It pays to contribute to the genealogical community!
21 January 2013
A Follow Up
Courtesy of the PURE Center Zanesville, OH |
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/americanexperience/features/interactive-map/abolitionists-map/
http://www.purecenter.org/pure/Default.htm
20 January 2013
Scrap Day Sunday
Abigail (DeWolf) Ingraham Mourning Dress Fabric. |
This weeks scrap is yet another scrap of fabric. This is a black piece of silk found in the Ingraham/Wardwell bible. After close inspection, this piece seems to match a swatch found in the collection of the Bates County Museum. The piece in the museum collection contained this note:
" This satin in a dress, was trimmed with crape & worn for mourning for Capt. Jeremiah Ingraham 1807. Presented By Mrs. Abigail Ingraham, of Bristol, R.I. to her namesake then 14 years of age,Sept. 1818. Presented by Miss Abigail R Ingraham, of Amenia, N.Y. to her namesake 14 years of age, of Manchester Mich. Sept. 1852."
Note describing the mourning fabric. Courtesy of the Bates County Museum |
17 January 2013
Thou Shalt Not Suffer A Witch To Live
Salem Village 1692 by W.P. Upham |
My interest in genealogy started at an early age. My mother had a group of typed pages that she had copied from some pages that my great great grandmother had kept in a trunk. Granny gave her exactly 24 hours to have those pages copied and back to her. This was before copiers and scanners. When Granny said 24 hours, she meant 24 hours. Mom spent all night typing up those pages. So those pages sparked an interest in where I came from.
Several years later, I was a freshman in college and taking a prerequisite history course. That day's topic was the Salem Witch Trials. I was half paying attention when the TA started writing names on the chalkboard. Israel Porter, John Putnam, Thomas Putnam, etc. Hold on a minute. One of those ring a bell. After class was over, I went back to the dorm and called my mother. I asked her to find Granny's stack of papers and look for the name Putnam. Sure enough, there it was. Thomas Putnam. After some checking of names, dates, children, etc. , it was clear that Thomas Putnam of Salem Village and the Thomas Putnam in Granny's papers were one in the same. This further stoked my interest in my family history, but I was young, so I just noted it and went on with college life. Then about ten years ago, the genealogy bug came back and bit me in a big way. I wanted to know everything about every one of my ancestors. Naturally, an ancestor that was involved in the Salem Witch Trials was a good place to start. Little did I know how involved my ancestors would be.
The required reading for the course was Salem Possessed: The Social Origins of Witchcraft by Paul Boyer and Stephen Nissembaum. This is where my education began. I'm not going to go into detail on the Putnam family of Salem Village or present day Danvers, MA. The family is well documented and information is easy to find concerning the family and it's origins. My descent comes down through two of the children of Thomas Putnam Sr. and Anne Holyoke, their daughter Ann who married William Trask(e) and their son Edward who married Mary Hale. The Putnams were a prominent family in Salem Village who were land owners and members of the church as well as involved in village politics.
Then the madness began. When it ended, my ancestor Deacon Edward Putnam had participated in thirteen cases and the family had participated in no fewer than 46 cases. Edward had given testimony against Rebecca (Towne) Nurse, George Burroughs, Martha Corey, Mary (Towne) Easty, and Sarah (Solart) Good, all of which were found guilty and executed. So my 9th great grandfather had the blood of at least five people on his hands. Now, that's a skeleton in the family closet!
Edward Putnam v. Martha Corey |
That's when the inner conflict began. When I first learned that my ancestors were involved in the Salem Witch Trial, that pivotal moment in American History, I was excited. My ancestors made history! Here I am reading about them in a college history course 300 years later! Then to learn that they were actually instrumental in the loss of innocent lives, was to say the least, devastating. I can't help but feel the guilt for the acts that happened over 300 years ago. I had absolutely nothing to do with this and yet, I feel the guilt.
Since that first introduction into the Salem Witch Trial, I have read all that I can on the subject hoping to get some insight to what drove my ancestors to believe what they did. The theories as to the cause of the hysteria are numerous. Boyer and Nissembaum believe it arose from a power struggle between the two prominent families of Salem Village, the Porters and the Putnams. (Interestingly, Granny's sister and Putnam descendant, Katie Coretta VanSant married a Porter.) Recently Katherine Howe, an author and historian, put forth the theory that the Rev. Samuel Parris was to blame for the trials in Salem: Unmasking the Devil on the National Geographic Channel. Historian Mary Beth Norton believes it was due to tension with the Native Americans at the time. Ergot poisioning, meningitis, the list goes on and on. None of these really told me why Edward and his family did what they did. The truth is, I will never know nor will anyone else for that matter. He could have been acting as his conscience dictated. Maybe he really believed the girls were afflicted. Then again, maybe it was done out of spite and vengeance towards the Porters and the anti-Parris faction. Maybe it was a combination of both of these or some completely different reason. I just find it fascinating that the guilt can be there 300 plus years later. Perhaps I over think it. Perhaps it's because I love genealogy and want to really know my ancestors that the guilt is there. I suppose I will just chalk it up to human nature.
http://etext.virginia.edu/salem/witchcraft/
http://law2.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/salem/salem.htm
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